FEAR THESAURUS

LOSING THE RESPECT OF OTHERS



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HELPFUL TIP:

A deeply embedded fear often stems from trauma, so it can be helpful to explore emotional wounds that may be a factor. Your character might also become risk-averse, which can create problems in their relationships and limit their fulfillment. And for a character to achieve their story goal, they must overcome any fear-based thinking that's holding them back. The Character Builder is a great resource for pulling all these factors together.
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Gaining and keeping the respect of our peers is such an innate desire; even those who claim they don't care what people think still desire to be acknowledged on some level. When this desire turns into a fear, it can manifest in a variety of ways that may seem contradictory depending on who the character is with and what's expected of them. Whether it exists in the workplace or the character's personal relationships, respect is hard won, and the fear of losing it can limit their personal growth and be devastating to their mindset.

WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE:
Mimicking others to adhere to the group's standards
Being susceptible to peer pressure
Avoiding confrontations to keep the peace
Projecting an air of confidence
Changing personalities depending on who the character is with
Being perceived as a teacher's pet, brown-noser, or goody two-shoes
Being a high achiever
Perfectionism at work or school
Taking on other people's responsibilities
Exhibiting workaholic tendencies
Being thoughtful and considerate to the point of annoyance
Being a rule follower
Volunteering for work, projects, or responsibilities
Taking on a submissive role in relationships
The character avoiding tasks they don't believe they can do well
Pushing themselves past reasonable limits to make a good impression
Apologizing often

COMMON INTERNAL STRUGGLES:
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FLAWS THAT MAY EMERGE:
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HINDRANCES AND DISRUPTIONS TO THE CHARACTER'S LIFE:
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EMOTIONAL WOUNDS IT COULD STEM FROM:
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SCENARIOS THAT MIGHT AWAKEN THIS FEAR :
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HUMAN NEEDS THAT COULD BE IMPACTED:
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GOALS MADE DIFFICULT BY THIS FEAR:
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CONFLICT SCENARIOS THAT OFFER GROWTH OPPORTUNITIES:
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